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       2R's Women Group exist to provide help to families, women, mothers and expectant mothers. We support people disadvantaged by living in urban areas, the educationally disadvantaged and the unemployed. We carry out general charitable works including health promotion, providing day centres for older people, encouraging activities and relationships between generations and establishing community organisations. Activities organised include needlework, music performance, singing, Asian art and culture events and the study of the life and language of other countries. We seek community participation from the Wolverhampton area, including urban areas, the inner city and areas of social deprivation.

WHAT 2 R’S WOMEN GROUP

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The 2 R’s Women Group is an action group of women that has been working in the community since 2004.   It’s a part of 2R’s Community Resource Centre who is a company limited by guarantee and registered charity.

2 R’s Women Group is an informal network of women to connect, get support, advice and information. It is a place where local women have a trust in the group and therefore their confidence is built by being part of the group.  The members support each other in dealing with all aspects of being a women such as parenting, work, family and community.

2 R’s Women Group aims to empower and raise the self esteem of all women from difference cultures and backgrounds through various activities. Every year the 2 R’s Women Group organises a “Women Day for women in March in which over 100 women from City of Wolverhampton & its surroundings  participate.  The weekend acts as a forum for the women to builds friendships, develop self-confidence, learn new skills and debate current issues that affect them.  It exposes them to new activities such as Yoga & Meditation.

In the 2 R’s women Group “Annual Sponsored Walk” people from different faiths and backgrounds walk through Wolverhampton.  Money has been raised for national and international charitable causes.

Every year “2 R’s Senior Citizens Multi-faith Luncheon” is organized.  Approximately 150 ‘young at hearts’ from residential homes, day centres and local areas get together to enjoy a meal and entertainment.

Seminars and Conferences” are also held to empower women.  Issues affecting women such as domestic violence, bullying, alcoholism and ethnical issues are discussed and debated.

“Interfaith Mothers Day” IS celebrated as Family Fun Days in remembrance of prominent historical women. 

The 2 R’s Gidha, KiKLEE, Gotna Shabak and Bolian in Punjabi to build bridges and break barriers between different communities.   

The 2 R’s Community Resource Centre is working to establish an “Multipurpose Centre” in wolverhampton as there are no culturally sensitive services available to the women and families of South Asian descent in Wolverhampton and surrounding areas. The 2 R’s has identified a building and are raising funds to purchase it. We need £375,000 TO purchase, refurbish and buy equipment to open such a centre.  We have £135,000 and HSBC have agreed to loan us £245,000.  We request all generous people, trust and business to come forward and help 2 R’s Community Resource Centre to establish this much needed centre.  For further information or making donations please contact 2 R’s Community Resource Centre on 07918 663 907.

FAMILIES

"Strong families are the building blocks of strong communities and key to tackling anti-social behaviour".

2R’s Women Group is building a strong communities by

1.    reuniting the Broken families.

2.    providing an education & training.

3.    councilling

4.    celebrating festivals together with families.

5.    knowing each others culture.

6.    maintaining arts & crafts.

7.    & with many more day to day activities.

The relentless erosion of our quality of life in Britain is, we believe, a result of family breakdown and the abandonment of their family values. Social problems such as Domestic violence, Dysfunctional Families, Drug and Alcohol dependency, Anti-social Behaviour, Abuse and Homelessness often have their roots in family breakdown. The evidence is all around us.

Our stated aims are:

(1) to encourage a return to their family values

(2) to provide a 'safety net' for families in crisis

Family life - as every parent knows - is rarely ever 'plain sailing'. Sooner or later problems arise. Most families are able to resolve these difficulties within the family unit, but for others the problems are so deeply rooted - that outside help is called for.

Most families experiencing serious difficulties find it helpful to have someone to talk to. Some need a 'breathing space', away from the usual pressures - a place where they can begin to address their difficulties. Others, with problems of a more serious nature, may need counselling and a deeper level of support.

Whatever the circumstances we aim to provide help and support in a caring, non-judgmental atmosphere. We can also help with Housing, Home Management, Cooking, Nutrition, Health, Hygiene, Personal Growth, Further Education, Work Training and Job Seeking.

 

Women


Domestic violence

Domestic violence is physical, psychological, sexual or financial violence that takes place within an intimate or family-type relationship and forms a pattern of coercive and controlling behaviour. Crime statistics and research both show that domestic violence is gender specific - usually the perpetrator of a pattern of repeated assaults is a man.

Women experience the most serious physical and repeated assaults.

This list can help you to recognise if you, or someone you know, are in an abusive relationship.

  • Destructive criticism and verbal abuse: shouting/mocking/accusing/name calling/verbally threatening.

  • Pressure tactics: sulking; threatening to withhold money, disconnect the telephone, take the car away, commit suicide, take the children away, report you to welfare agencies unless you comply with his demands regarding bringing up the children; lying to your friends and family about you; telling you that you have no choice in any decisions.

  • Disrespect: persistently putting you down in front of other people; not listening or responding when you talk; interrupting your telephone calls; taking money from your purse without asking; refusing to help with childcare or housework.

  • Breaking trust: lying to you; withholding information from you; being jealous; having other relationships; breaking promises and shared agreements.

  • Isolation: monitoring or blocking your telephone calls; telling you where you can and cannot go; preventing you from seeing friends and relatives.

  • Harassment: following you; checking up on you; opening your mail; repeatedly checking to see who has telephoned you; embarrassing you in public.

  • Threats: making angry gestures; using physical size to intimidate; shouting you down; destroying your possessions; breaking things; punching walls; wielding a knife or a gun; threatening to kill or harm you and the children.

  • Sexual violence: using force, threats or intimidation to make you perform sexual acts; having sex with you when you don't want to have sex; any degrading treatment based on your sexual orientation.

  • Physical violence: punching; slapping; hitting; biting; pinching; kicking; pulling hair out; pushing; shoving; burning; strangling.

  • Denial: saying the abuse doesn't happen; saying you caused the abusive behaviour; being publicly gentle and patient; crying and begging for forgiveness; saying it will never happen again.

 

Any woman can experience domestic violence regardless of race, ethnic or religious group, class, sexuality, disability or lifestyle.

 

Domestic Violence destroys both women's and children's lives.

 

consultation responses and other information relating to the Domestic Violence,

Information on legal rights protecting survivors, plus all
the latest Women's Aid policy briefings on children, housing and immigration.

Equal Opportunities

We believe that every human being is made in the image of, and for the glory of God. Therefore each individual has intrinsic worth and must be valued and respected. Everyone deserves encouragement and equal opportunity to reach the potential God has placed within them.

 

CHILDREN

 

CHILDREN WITH THEIR ACHEIVEMENTS AT THE CENTRE

14th November 05 ON INDIAN BAL-DIVS (Children Day)

    • Adoption and Foster Care

    • Child Abuse & Neglect

    • Child Care

    • Child Support

    • Children, Youth and Families

    • Missing Children and Runaways

    • Parenting

    • Refugees

    • Temporary Assistance for Needy Families (TANF)

    • Youth

      Positive Parenting and Positive Teaching based on Adlerian philosophy (see for example Jane Nelsen's work on Positive Discipline) instill in children as well as in adults, good values and social skills such as empathy, mutual respect, peaceful conflict resolution, cooperation, responsibility for one's actions through the use of encouragement and democratic principles. A truly democratic society has to start with a democratic family and a peaceful world has to start with a peaceful home.

      What I found so appealing in the Adlerian approach is that it encourages the child to do the right thing, how to be responsible, kind, etc. because it IS the right thing to do; not because of a reward, a bribe or, a promise - be it a toy, candy or acceptance into heaven... The motivation then lies within the person.

     Schools and parents may also want to look into the philosophy. The child as a "whole", and so, in the classroom, grace, kindness, responsibility for one's actions, respect for one's fellow human beings, respect for life, nature as well as one's physical environment, self-motivation,   practical life skills, peaceful conflict resolution, as well as academic knowledge are taught and emphasized.

  We believed that the purpose of education was to cultivate the child's own natural desire to learn. For a primer I recommend the book.

”Establishing lasting peace is the work of education; all politics can do is keep us out of war.”

“The greatest sign of success for a teacher... is to be able to say, "The children are now working as if I did not exist.”

“Never help a child with a task at which he feels he can succeed. These words reveal the child's inner needs:

"Help me to do it alone."

“Free the child's potential, and you will transform him into the world."                               

“Discipline must come through liberty... We do not consider an individual disciplined only when he has been rendered as artificially silent as a mute and as immovable as a paralytic. He is an individual annihilated, not disciplined.”

“The first idea the child must acquire is that of the difference between good and evil”

“Our aim is not only to make the child understand, and still less to force him to memorize, but so to touch his

imagination as to enthuse him to his innermost core.”

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“Education should no longer be mostly imparting of knowledge, but must take a new path, seeking the release of human potentialities. It is not enough for the teacher to love the child. She must first love and understand the universe.”

“The first duty of an education is to stir up life, but leave it free to develop.

 

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These are pictures from our recent Women's Group
tour to Shakespeare's country!


Departing from 2R's Community Resource Centre.


Shakespeare's Birthplace


Ann Hathaway's Cottage


Enjoying a rest in Ann Hathaway's beautiful garden!


The Shakespeare's Tree Garden with Sculpture and Maze.


Waiting for Shuttle Bus near Ann Hathaway's cottage.


Waiting to board the shuttle.


Enjoying the sun on top of the bus!


Gathering to depart at the River Avon's park.


Tired and departing for home after a wonderful day!

FOLLOWING ARE NARROW BOAT TRIPS PHOTOS TO BLACKCOUNTRY MUSEUM

Sikh culture study Students are listning to

Baba Balbir Singh Bedi

the 16 th Generation of Guru Nanak dev ji (The first Guru)

Above And Bottom

 

From right to left: Baba Balbir Singh Bedi

(16th generation of Guru Nanak Dev ji) Pro: Tarjinder Singh

(Teacher Sikh culture study at 2R's) Giani resham Singh Hayer

Ex President NRI Sabha Punjab India

Above Chola Sahib of Guru Nanak Dev ji.

Chola Sahib ji preserved and look after by

Baba balbir Singh ji at Dera Baba Nanak